Mediumship

My background....

I've been going to graves since I was 17 and I'm close to 40 now. I went there the first time and was walking around with a friend of mine. He was being rude and climbing on stones. This upset me and I remember walking away from him disgusted. After a little bit, I looked up into the sky. It wasn't too bright but it wasn't cloudy. I know there are no words for how I felt next. The peace was beyond anything I'd ever felt. I thought about how heaven must be like this. It wasn't happy or sad or really anything. It was like being in total oneness to the world and myself at the same time. I said for years, I was touched by God that day and from that moment on, I visited countless cemeteries.

Two more recent events were with crossed over family members. I went searching for my dad's family tree and anyone who has ever done this will tell you it is a headache in the making. I searched list after list, family name after family name and large amounts of census records. Even though the web sites for this kind of thing are helpful, they still can present huge amounts of time consuming lists.
During this time, I was hanging out with a spiritual group over in the thumb area. As I did the Spencer side of my father's family, I started to ask the past family if they were around for help. I started to make sense of the lists and names and all of a sudden it clicked. I did the same thing for the other side of his family and it clicked.
Now the spiritual group was an important thing because I realized after finding the family tree, my Spencer side lived in the very same area I was hanging out in. I also for months told people without my family who was no longer alive, I'd never would have found them.

The other moment happened last month. I went looking, when I first met my husband, for his birth mother who he had not seen for 10 years and found very little. Last month I went looking again for the sure h*ll of it and was surprised to find his grandmother's obit which by the way linked me to names including his mother. His mom was listed with him and his two bothers on the obit so it gave me a pretty good sign this was her. It was and he has since talked to her on the phone. His grandmother had passed away in Jan. 2010 and I truly believe she helped me find his mom.

According to Lisa Williams, this all means I've been creating links to spirits without realizing it. Though the links are not strong enough to get visions, words and messages, it is the first step in connecting to the spirit world. Where I am now is trying to get stronger links which last longer and am at times creating this. I'm looking at taking more classes and becoming part of a very small group this summer to help meditate and to work on my connections to spirits!

Your Psychic Friend,
Terra Graves